Feng Phooey! (Not Quite)
Practiced properly, Feng Shui can bring positive changes. Here's a good place to start.
Reviewed by Kathleen Stoehr
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Quick! How will you know when Feng Shui has really arrived in America? When you throw a house party and everyone wants to stand in your "wealth" corner. (Cue canned laughter!)
Or, wait . . . Feng Shui is just a diabolical scheme launched by overpriced interior designers who have one goal: to fleece as much cash as they can off billionaire clients by telling them they should hinge their doors left instead of right? Right? Feng phooey! A bunch of snake-oil-and-incense. It's crazy talk . . . Not! Sadly, the sacred principles of Feng Shui really have been put through the wringer. There is even a line of Feng Shui cosmetics on the market today. Good lordas if the color and application of my blusher will get my chi to flow properly. But Feng Shui, practiced properly, supports healthful, positive change in our lives. Our environmentsboth at work and at homedeeply affect us physically and emotionally. Even something as simple as a crack in the tile in your front entryway can affect your mood as you enter and exit your home. Cracked tile? Bad Feng Shui. If you're a cynical type, you may sneer at the suggestion of placing, for instance, an empty basket inside your front door to catch the flow of wealth before it leaves your home. Seems kind of obtuse, I know; but you don't have to buy into everything Feng Shui. Maybe you could just start with baby stepscommon sense changes to create balance and harmony in your life. Author Carole J. Hyder, with her Wind and Water: Your Personal Feng Shui Journey, will get you going.
SIMPLE STARTS There are many Feng Shui books that provide the complete sententious approach. Wind and Water presents Feng Shui as simple suggestions that can be done on a daily basis through information and a corresponding activity. Instead of reading about Feng Shuiand feeling helpless that it will take $20,000 and three months to move your bathroom from the center of your house to the far right cornerthis book provides an immediate avenue to experience the concept. Open the book to any page and yes, it might tell you something you already know, but it may also give you pause. For example, consider your desk. Yes, I confess I used to prescribe to the "a cluttered desk is the sign of an intelligent mind" credo (mostly to make myself feel better about the gawd-awful mess on the top of my desk); but Hyder stresses that if you cannot see the top of your desk, you cannot clearly see the vision for your life. It's true. Think about some top-level executives you know. Shiny, clutter-free desk top . . . a few family photos . . . a lovely, lush plant. The desk is clear because they have reached a pinnacle of success and don't have paperwork to shuffle; the desk is clear because they deal with loose ends, toss out projects that didn't happen, and file what needs to be filed. Take a look at your desk at home and at work. View it as a map of your life. Get rid of the clutter. Place a flourishing planta sign of growth and lifewhere your "to-do" pile is. Do it today. Additionally, if you have a particular topic you wish to address, for instance, your marriage, you can turn to the Harmony chapter and begin implementing Hyder's suggestions. In the master bedroom, Hyder suggests incorporating pairs of itemscandles, light fixtures, identical silk flower arrangementsto reflect the "two-ness" and intimate harmony with your spouse. The best part about this book is that each suggestion is only a page long, making the book easy to page through, easy to put down, even easy to take, as Hyder suggests, one page at a time and make your changes slowly. There's even an easy-to-scan index if you need to pinpoint a particular topic quickly.
PRACTICING FENG SHUI The simple suggestions Hyder offers in Wind and Water are ones you can easily pass onto your clients, without having to spend time and money taking classes, learning what the word bagua (among others) means (and no, it's not a round, doughy object you spread cream cheese on). The recommendations Hyder makes, page by page, offer excellent ideas that you can turn into add-on sales through the use of mirrors, plants, pillows, candles, comforters and more. I found myself very comfortable with this book, not intimidated in the least, and many of the easy ideas Hyder generated are ones I have now incorporated into my home and office. If you are willing to view Feng Shui as more than snake-oil-and-incense, Wind and Water is a terrific place to begin your journey.
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The recommendations Hyder makes offer excellent ideas that you can turn into add-on sales.
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